Being single

remember the post i did a few months ago about being in relationship and married are both social construct?
this video just explains my idea exactly.

the sadness and loneliness single people are experiencing is because the society makes it that way.
you really don't need someone to be truly happy. you're unhappy because you feel like you need somebody and again the idea of needing someone is from the society.

she got a really good point on living your life and pursuing your goals.
I think that's the best way to live a life.
Don't just sit there and think about why you're still single or think about how to get someone so you won't be single.
Instead focus on bettering yourself mentally and physically everyday and pursue your goals.

And let chance decide whether you'll meet someone.
They'll come naturally.
Don't force it.

so there's nothing wrong being a single. You can still be happy.